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    • Sisters Grimm: The Fairytale Detectives
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    • The Boy Who Looked Like Lincoln
    • The Scrambled States of America
    • Facing the Lion
    • When You Were Small
    • The Stinky Cheese Man & Other Fairly Stupid Tales
    • I Stink
    • That's What Friends are For
    • The Day the Babies Crawled Away
    • The Blood-Hungry Spleen & Other Poems About Our Body Parts
    • A Kick in the Head
    • Jamberry
    • Rechenka's Eggs
    • On My Way to Buy Eggs
    • Betsy Who Cried Wolf
    • C D B
    • Frederick
    • It's Simple Said Simon
    • Maybe Yes, Maybe No, Maybe Maybe
    • Minn & Jake
    • Somebody Loves You, Mr. Hatch
    • The Day I Swapped My Dad for Two Goldfish
    • The Empty Pot
    • The Three Little Wolves & the Big, Bad Pig
    • What I Call Life

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    That's What Friends Are For (Paperback)

    By Sylvia Van Clief, Holly Meade, Florence Parry Heide
    $6.99
    ISBN-13: 9780763626464
    Availability: On Our Shelves Now
    Published: Candlewick, 2/2007
    Other Editions of this Title
    From the very beginning, children get a whole lot of socializing about who their friends are: Essentially, everyone. After all, the world loves babies, and the world can be a very friendly place to them. Big people fuss over them. Small people are curious about them. Real animals fascinate them, and stuffed animals are pleasingly furry and provide comfort when all the big people, small people and real animals go to another room. When babies get bigger, they go to places with other children the same age and, invariably, they are introduced with "Here are your new friends." And it pretty much works out that way. Throw in some lessons about sharing, and kids pretty much understand the friendship concept.

    Except that eventually everybody grows up and begins to have different experiences and manifest different needs and desires. Pretty soon, all your friends don't have only baby experiences in common, so that making friends--and being a friend--involves the gigantically difficult concept of empathy. And, among the many great books about teaching that, That's What Friends Are For can be especially useful.

    Theo the elephant has an injured foot. (In the children's book universe, there's no affliction like lameness to signal that a lesson won't be far behind.) Theo despairs that he cannot visit his cousin on the other side of the jungle. His friends, the jungle animals, all offer advice, each according to his or her own experience. Bird suggests Theo fly there. Monkey suggests Theo just swing through the trees, and so on. Only Opossum groks that Theo doesn't need such advice, he needs real help. Think-outside-the-box help. The friends should travel through the jungle and escort the cousin elephant to Theo's side.

    This book, written in 1968 and reissued with watercolor and cut-paper-collage illustrations, is a baldly didactic book. Theo, it states plainly, doesn't need advice, he needs help. Often such didacticism is a woeful trait in children's picture books, but this one gets points because its playful artwork, refrains and cumulative storytelling make it seem less like a sermon and more like an effort to be genuinely clear on the concept. Advice can seem like help, until actual help reveals how deficient advice can be.

    Sometimes subtlety is best, but sometimes--if a real explanation is needed--subtle can be lame. That's what books like this are for.

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    STACKS OF WAX: The Return of Worth the Candle


    The holidays at Hicklebee’s always include the delighted refrain of shoppers who rediscover a book from their pasts. Hearing “I remember that book from when I was little” is common as cookie crumbs here in December. Almost as common—and not nearly as sweet—are the laments that occur when we have to tell a customer that a book is out of print or otherwise unavailable.

    We think at least some of these sorrows are preventable: All it takes are people who love kids’ books and pay them forward to the next generation. To do our bit to help, we’re reviving our weekly Worth the Candle reviews of vintage books.

    A few years ago, Candlepicking was introduced thusly:

    Centuries ago, when people knew how much labor went into making a single candle, the decision to burn one involved real consideration. A night-time activity that didn't provide real value or true pleasure would be deemed "not worth the candle" needed to illuminate it.

    Nowadays light is easy to come by; as are new, flashy things to occupy our time. But in such an abundant world, some wonderful things can be overlooked. Each week, Hicklebee's wants to remind you of a terrific book that was published years ago, but that remains worth your effort to buy it or find it at the library.

    Before it took a break a couple of years ago, Worth the Candle toted up more than a hundred brief reviews, and there is still at shelf at Hicklebee’s where these titles congregate. This isn’t where you’ll find a copy of Goodnight Moon or Harry Potter. Those books enjoy our love, but they thrive without special attention. Instead, the shelf is a place to find lesser-known gems—books we’d like to wave a magic wand over and turn into perennial bestsellers. So that even a generation from now, they will still be enchanting readers.

    Worth the Candle—whether you’re in the store or online—is a special place to browse. We look forward to adding more titles in 2012.

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